Thursday, 10 October 2013
The tongue has no bones but it is strong enough to break a heart so be careful with your words."
On average a person speaks 13 thousand words in 24 hours ,they say that women tend to use more words then men.Regardless,this is a big number and it does not include the self-talk: meaning the words that we phrase internally.What people do not seem to pay attention to is the impact that these words have can have on us and on others.From the first impression to the last meeting ,the words we use define us and determine our destiny.Our words can have an impact on the behaviour of others around us.Words can be used to hurt or to heal.
They can be soft or they can be harsh ,they can start a war or end one.It is something within our control ,yet we do not pay attention to them as we should. There is no limit to what words can do to someone positively or negatively.
"You are stupid" Whether it is self-talk or something that someone says to us,try and feel the low feeling these few words can cause. They can even leave a scar on some.
"You are beautiful" Whether it is self-talk or something that someone says to us try and feel the positive energy these few words can cause.It is only a matter of choice.Saying a word is something that can't be undone,something that we can't take back. If we can't undo it,therefore the impact can't be changed. It is true that words cannot change a reality but they can change how people perceive reality.
Words ,we must pay attention to them and use them wisely, Words are powerful but let us not forget we can control them.
In our self-talk which we always do whether it is in the morning before going to work or at night before going to sleep, we have a choice between using words of criticism or words of encouragement.In the 13 thousands words that you are going to use in the next 24 hours, be aware and be careful of the ones you say.Try and make sure that at least half of these words are positive and not negative and witness the effect on others and on yourself.
The kind words that we speak have echoes that are endless.
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
However, I do not see any warnings about excessive amounts mentioned here.
ReplyDeleteThere are always those who think that more of whatever is beneficial is better.
http://www.bluesupplement.com/womens-multivitamin/
Akash
ReplyDeleteI agree that this is true😘
ReplyDeleteHas to be!!🥰
DeleteLife is a matter of choice but one I know choose what is the best and what is the most helpful not for you but for everyone.
ReplyDelete